Diary Entry #20 + A-Z Challenege, G is for Grief! *Bit of a Rant*
I
 used to be best friends with a lass that I met on one of my post natal 
depression courses last year, we really clicked & at one point we 
was inseparable! we did everything together & was practically with 
each other everyday & then one night in October last year we decided
 to go on a night out (she was single) & she met this bloke & 
they hit it off! I then began to see less & less of her & at 
first it didn't bother me because when we did meet up we had a good time,
 but then I began to notice that whenever we did met, we'd never got ANY
 time just us & our boys because he was like this little puppy 
wrapped around her legs 24-7! he had to be everywhere that she was!
 To cut a long story short he slowly but surely made it clear that he didn't like me! & he started being really vulgar
 towards me, I could only take so much & in the end I told my mate 
that if he was going to carry on being so horrid towards me & wasnt 
going to have words, I couldn't be her friend anymore, her reply.... 
"that's your decision" then a few weeks later, he text me asking for 
some pjs that my mate had left at mine of her son's the last time she 
was here & because I told him she can collect them herself, he went 
all mental on me & threatened to call child protection on me & 
have my son taken from my care & then he threatened to come to my 
house & "sort me out" this of course scared the crap out of me &
 I changed my number.
 I haven't heard anything from either of them 
since March/April time after changin my number & I have began to get
 on with my life but then yesterday I received a message from her on 
facebook asking if I wanted to go to her son's birthday party today.... 
IS SHE FOR FUCKING REAL? I have of course replied to her message as nice
 as possible & declined the invite (my hubby doesnt want our son 
anywhere near her fella & neither do I) but has she bothered to 
reply whatsoever since sending her message? has she bollocks, she just 
barges back into my life & dumps somethin like that on me & then
 ignores ALL my messages. i'm fucking fuming right now in all fairness 
& feel like I have taken 5 steps forward & 20 steps back.. 
I am sorry for the negativity on this one guys. 
 
 
 
          
      
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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